Being Wronged Is Often Just a Matter of Awareness—or Stupidity

When someone wrongs you, it’s easy to take it personally. We feel hurt, offended, and maybe even betrayed. But take a step back and ask yourself: Did they do it out of deep malice… or just because they didn’t know any better?

The truth is most people ddon'tact out of cruelty. They act out of ignorance, fear, habit—or plain stupidity. Their actions reflect their level of awareness, not some grand intention to harm you. What feels personal is often not personal at all.

Some people genuinely don’t know how their words land. Others are trapped in patterns they’ve never questioned. Some lack the emotional intelligence or self-reflection to act better. So why give away your peace of mind over someone else’s lack of growth?

That doesn’t mean you accept bad behavior. But it does mean you choose not to carry unnecessary anger over it. You see it for what it is: a signal of where they are in their journey—not a reflection of your worth.

So next time you feel wronged, ask: Was this done with intent—or was it just a lack of awareness? Either way, you always have a choice: hold onto the offense or move forward with clarity and calm. Choose wisely.